Once our children begin school, they will be influenced by persons outside our families. They will have to deal with the world. We have to deal with the consequences of that new found freedom. So here is something you can do.

Kids love to play games. One of the things they like best is to play 'grown-up.' Get yourself down on the floor at or below your child's eyelevel and play 'grown-up.' 

In your best actor's voice tell them you want to play a game of scouts, day care, school, soccer, or whatever activity they are involved in. Let them know they are the 'adult' and you are the 'child.' Tell them you want to play a game like DAY CARE (if they happen to be attending a day care facility).

Let them choose the game. Then ask them what the rules of the game are. PLAY DUMB. Get them to explain the rules to you. Then play the game with them. Every step of the way, play dumb and keep asking questions about how  the game is to be played. Let them tell you how things are to progress.

Don't assume anything. If your child tells you they want to play leapfrog, don't use your adult mind to define what leapfrog is. Let your child explain exactly what it is. It may very well be the same care-free game you played as a child. You may find out that in daycare with Mr. Bob 'leapfrog' means
taking off all your clothes, crouching down on the ground, and every third child is abused by Mr. Bob. 

Whenever you do this, let your child explain fully. Play dumb in order to learn more about the games your child is playing. Examine and explore every facet of your child's life ourside your home. Remember, molesters walk in every facet of our lives, they take on all identities, and are members of all professions. May you and your children ....